Do You Act Like A Little Kid When It Comes To Giving?

Photo by Worapol Sittiphaet

Photo by Worapol Sittiphaet

“No” and “Mine”

I have four daughters.

Yes, there’s a lot of estrogen flowing at my house, and this daddy is a big sap with his girls.

At the time of this writing, my third daughter, Katelynn, is 22 months old. She is quite the little chatterbox at this stage in life, and she has two favorite words right now. You may even be able to guess what they are!

The first word is “NO.” The second word is “MINE.”

Did mommy and daddy teach her these words? Well, not intentionally at least. This is simply the human condition, our sin nature, at work.

So, this is typically what happens at the Jones’ house. Katelynn will get a hold of something as simple as my car keys. I will politely and lovingly ask her for my keys back, because I need them. And, what do you think the first two words are out of her mouth?

Of course, her two new favorite words – No and Mine! And then, she doesn’t want to obey daddy and give them back. I end up in a little wrestling match with this sweet, little adorable girl to get my keys back! Once I have them yanked out of her hands, she has a meltdown.

We Can Act Like Little Kids, Too!

I know this is a fun and adorable story about my little girl, but unfortunately, the sad reality is that this happens with us as adults too.

God has richly blessed us. He has given us money, talents, abilities, food, cars, clothes, and houses that He ultimately wants us to use for His glory.

Then, the Holy Spirit taps us on the shoulder and says, “Hey, Larry. I’d really appreciate if you would give at least 10% of your income on a consistent basis.” Or maybe He says, “I’d really like you to cook a meal and take it to a family that needs help.” Or, “I’d like you to give a few dollars to that homeless guy on the corner.”

But, we end up just like my daughter Katelynn. We take ownership of what is already God’s to begin with and those two favorite words come spilling out of our mouths, “No, God. Mine!”

God’s Word teaches us that everything belongs to Him to begin with. In Psalm 24:1, we read these words:

“The earth is the Lord’s, and everything in it, the world, and all who live in it.”

See my Giving Talk Video below where I addressed this same issue:

Questions: What is God asking you to give, today? Why haven’t you given it to Him, yet?

5 Ways to Achieve Critical Mass Momentum Like The Kansas City Royals

Photo by Keith Allison

Photo by Keith Allison

Momentum.

It’s one of those aspects of life that is very difficult to quantify.

When an individual or an organization achieves momentum, how in the world are they able to accomplish that?

At the time of my writing this article, my hometown baseball team the 2014 Kansas City Royals have been able to achieve somewhat of a miracle for their franchise. For the first time in 29 years, the Royals have finally been able to make postseason play. The last time they made the playoffs was the year they won the championship in 1985.

The Royals were off to a great start at the beginning of this season but lost their way in June and July when they fell 8 games behind the Detroit Tigers. But since July 22, the Royals have been on a 41-23 tear that landed them a spot in the American League Wildcard game with the Oakland A’s. And now, the rest is history, at least up to the point of my writing this on October 8. The Royals have won their last four postseason games in a row.

So how has a wildcard team, a come from behind team such as the Royals, been able to accomplish great things over the last few months? Simply put, they are riding a tremendous wave of momentum.

But how did this momentum happen? How have the Royals been able to manufacture momentum while other perhaps “better” teams have not been equally successful?

Here are my thoughts on how some teams are able to achieve momentum while others are not.

5 Ways The Royals Have Achieved Momentum

  1. They posses team unity. A few days ago, I was watching the ALDS series with the Royals and Angels, and one of the commentators mentioned that what made the Royals unique was the fact that this ball club is not a collection of superstar players like other teams. The Royals seem to be able to check their egos at the door and do whatever they need to do for their team to win. Sometimes superstar players have a way of making decisions that benefit themselves and not necessarily the team. If you want momentum, focus on the team and less on yourself.
  2. They are focused on their strengths: speed, defense, pitching, and bullpen. These are the core strengths of the KC Royals. They are not big home run hitters. Most of their games have low scores because they are not the best offensive players. But, they also understand if they excel in their strengths, they don’t necessarily need a lot of runs to win ball games.
  3. They are working hard. Left fielder Alex Gordon is somewhat of a legend for his passion, desire, and work ethic. It is well-known that Gordon often arrives to the ballpark before even the coaching staff gets there. He has “heart and hustle” and helps the team every way he possibly can.
  4. They benefited from excellent timing. Many times, momentum builds completely on the “luck” of good timing as has happened with the Royals. But who knows. Perhaps the timing has been right because the team has put in the hard work and focused on their strengths? Maybe it’s more than just “luck.”
  5. They are having fun! You can tell the Royals are really enjoying this season. Royals outfielder Lorenzo Cain recently said, “We’re going to enjoy it, going to have a blast, and hopefully we can just celebrate like this. This is awesome.”

Questions: Have you ever been part of a team that experienced a tremendous surge of momentum? What would you attribute that surge to? Are you a Royals fan? Am I missing any other big reasons why the Royals have done well this season?

Feel free to leave a blog comment for me and join the conversation.

Not Sure Where To Begin? Here’s The Starting Point For Christian Financial Stewardship

Photo by Kelvin Dickinson

Photo by Kelvin Dickinson

Making Plans

People have plans for lots of stuff in this life.

A woman who is about to be married spends hours flipping through wedding magazines, scanning websites, calling florists, and talking to caterers. She has a plan to create the most beautiful wedding known to mankind!

A professional executive in the workplace has a strategic plan and a daily task list. He has a plan to climb the corporate ladder and become a successful CEO one day.

Families often spend weeks planning out their ultimate summer vacation. Since they’re about to spend a lot of money, they want to get the biggest bang for their buck and have a great time.

But, these same people put together a financial plan? Are you kidding me? Nah, they would rather just shoot from the hip and roll the dice. They have thousands of dollars of income flowing into their bank account each month but have no desire to manage what is coming in. That’s too restrictive, constraining, and absolutely zero fun!

So, why do people spend so much time planning for special occasions such as weddings, vacations, or work projects but have no desire to put together a financial plan?

Because there is a sense of pressure and expectation for these other events.

A memorable wedding has high expectations all around it. The bride, groom, parents, family, and even close friends all have certain expectations wrapped up in a couple’s wedding ceremony.

A professional executive position has pressure and expectation from the first day he has been hired. This person is under the gun to perform at a high level to achieve success in their career not only for the company they work for, but also to provide for their family.

A big family vacation may only happen one time a year, but the parents and children all want the biggest return for their time and money. Plus, they want to outdo last year’s trip. They are expecting to have the time of their lives.

I find it interesting, though, that most people don’t put themselves under the same kind of pressure and expectation when it comes to money. And, I find it even more interesting that the majority of Christians have the very same mindset as the rest of the world.

But God has high expectations for those who claim the name of Christ to be excellent managers of money.

God and Money

So, why would God have high expectations for me and my financial life?

Because everything you have belongs to God in the first place. Your money, your house, your car, your career, your talents and abilities, your health, your spouse, and your children are all His, not yours. This is the starting point for an understanding of what Christian stewardship is all about.

“The earth is the Lord’s, and everything in it, the world, and all who live in it;” (Psalm 24:1).

You may be thinking to yourself, “Now, Larry. I worked hard for all I have. I went to college for six years. I climbed the corporate ladder. I amassed all my earthly possessions. I found my spouse and we created children, together.”

Yes, that may all be true, but according to the above verse, God owns everything. And because He owns everything, He is expecting you as a Christian to be an excellent manager of His stuff.

“Moreover it is required in stewards, that a man be found faithful” (I Corinthians 4:2).

Even Jesus taught His followers this principle in the Parable of the Bags of Gold in Matthew 25:14-30 (NIV):

“Again, it will be like a man going on a journey, who called his servants and entrusted his wealth to them. To one he gave five bags of gold, to another two bags, and to another one bag, each according to his ability. Then he went on his journey. The man who had received five bags of gold went at once and put his money to work and gained five bags more.  So also, the one with two bags of gold gained two more. But the man who had received one bag went off, dug a hole in the ground and hid his master’s money.

“After a long time the master of those servants returned and settled accounts with them. The man who had received five bags of gold brought the other five. ‘Master,’ he said, ‘you entrusted me with five bags of gold. See, I have gained five more.’

“His master replied, ‘Well done, good and faithful servant! You have been faithful with a few things; I will put you in charge of many things. Come and share your master’s happiness!’
“The man with two bags of gold also came. ‘Master,’ he said, ‘you entrusted me with two bags of gold; see, I have gained two more.’

“His master replied, ‘Well done, good and faithful servant! You have been faithful with a few things; I will put you in charge of many things. Come and share your master’s happiness!’
“Then the man who had received one bag of gold came. ‘Master,’ he said, ‘I knew that you are a hard man, harvesting where you have not sown and gathering where you have not scattered seed. So I was afraid and went out and hid your gold in the ground. See, here is what belongs to you.’

“His master replied, ‘You wicked, lazy servant! So you knew that I harvest where I have not sown and gather where I have not scattered seed? Well then, you should have put my money on deposit with the bankers, so that when I returned I would have received it back with interest.

“‘So take the bag of gold from him and give it to the one who has ten bags. For whoever has will be given more, and they will have an abundance. Whoever does not have, even what they have will be taken from them. And throw that worthless servant outside, into the darkness, where there will be weeping and gnashing of teeth.’

From this parable, we see three servants who had plans for the money that had been entrusted to them by their master. Two of the three got the money plan right. The third servant got it wrong. The two servants who got the money plan right were rewarded. The one who got their plan wrong was punished.

Are You Even At The Starting Point?

In this post, we have seen that there are two parts to the starting point for Biblical finances.

First, you must a have a plan. Having a casual approach to money accomplishes nothing. You have to a vision of what you absolutely need to accomplish with the financial resources you have been entrusted with.

Second (and most importantly), you must acknowledge that God own everything that you have – your time, energy, health, relationships, abilities, and, of course, money. As a child of God, He is expecting you to manage His stuff with excellence.

Question: Do you have a financial plan and have you acknowledged that God is the owner of all He has asked you to manage?