Do You Make This Common Mistake In Your Prayer Life?

Photo by Will Foster

Photo by Will Foster

Praying For Lots Of Stuff

Do you have the tendency to pray for more and more stuff?

I’m talking about all of the prayers we offer up for our own individual needs and the needs of other people.

You know, like praying for a new bass boat for yourself, or praying for a special blessing on Aunt Martha’s hangnail. Ok, those are extreme examples, but I think you probably know what I’m talking about.

I fear that the modern day Christian prays for many things, but doesn’t really stop and praise the Lord for all the amazing things He has already accomplished in their life.

This is a common mistake that many of us make in our prayer lives.

Praising God For What He Has Done

Psalm 103 is an excellent reminder to all of us to not forget to praise God for all that He has done for us.

Psalm 103:1-5

Bless the Lord, O my soul;
And all that is within me, bless His holy name!
Bless the Lord, O my soul,
And forget not all His benefits:
Who forgives all your iniquities,
Who heals all your diseases,
Who redeems your life from destruction,
Who crowns you with lovingkindness and tender mercies,
Who satisfies your mouth with good things,
So that your youth is renewed like the eagle’s.

Don’t Forget The Benefits Of God

My favorite phrase in the first few verses of Psalm 103 is in verse 2, “And forget not all His benefits.”

The word benefit carries with it the idea of a “reward.”

King David is reminding us in this psalm to not forget about the rewards that God gives us. We are to praise the Lord for all the awesome blessings He pours into our lives. David goes on to list these rewards, things such as:

  • the forgiveness of sin
  • healing from disease
  • redemption from Hell
  • physical protection
  • an abundance of provision
  • renewed youth

Yes, God desires for us to pray for our needs and the needs of others, but He also wants us to praise His holy name for all the amazing blessings He pours into our lives each day.

Don’t make this common mistake in your prayer life by focusing your prayer life on just needs. Spend more time praising Him for all the good things in life as well.

Questions: So, are you making this common mistake? Are you spending the majority of your prayer time asking God for stuff? Or, do you need to make a shift in taking more time to praise Him for those special “benefits” He brings into your life? What amazing rewards has God given to you, today?






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The Great Financial Debate: Quality vs Frugality

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A Simple Coffee Maker Reminds Me Of The Debate

Over the holidays, I received a Keurig coffee maker for a Christmas present. I’ve secretly wanted one of these bad boys for quite a while, but I also didn’t want to spend $150 to be able to brew just one cup of coffee at a time, either.

Within a few short days of using my new coffee maker, I started thinking “where have you been all my life?” This machine brews an amazing cup of coffee! For 20+ years, I’ve made the traditional 10-12 cup pot in a drip coffee maker. I just never realized how bitter and nasty this coffee is when compared to a freshly brewed cup from a Keurig.

For those of you who are serious coffee drinkers and have done all the different types of coffee makers, then you are very much aware that the daily cost of using a Keurig is possibly twice as expensive as a traditional drip coffee maker. You can make them a bit less expensive by using the refillable plastic mesh K-cups. This is what I’ve done with great results.

As I’ve enjoyed my new coffee maker the last several weeks, I have been reminded of the continual financial debate of quality versus frugality.

Is Frugality Always The Best Option, Really?

There are so many Christian financial, frugality-mindset, well-meaning blogs out there. They teach you how to re-use plastic sandwich baggies, how to recycle old clothes, and how to clip coupons. That’s fine. I understand this line of thinking. I believe there is a place for frugality. We should live with an attitude of contentment and thanksgiving. We shouldn’t be wasteful with what God has blessed us. I’d like to think I live frugally in most areas of my life.

Here, though, is the overarching question to the entire debate: “Is being super frugal in every area of your life always the best way to go?”

For me, the simple answer is “No.” There are some instances where we probably should abandon the frugality bandwagon and step over into a quality mindset.

Several years ago, I had the same epiphany moment with Mac versus PC. Yes, the Mac is more expensive on the front end. But on the back-end, several years after purchasing my MacBook, iMac, and iPad, these computers are still running almost as well as the day I purchased them. I don’t need to constantly update virus protection software. I don’t struggle with my operating system slowing down. I no longer have computer crashes. I’ve experienced the quality but expensive better overall experience over the cheaper PC products. I’m not going back, either. Yes, I drank the Kool-Aid. Thank you, Steve Jobs.

On other items less important to me, I’m the dollar store guy. Take, for instance, clothes hangers. I have no problem picking up a ten-pack of cheap, plastic clothes hangers for a buck. No biggie for me. Here’s an instance where I will embrace frugality. Other people who are clothes hounds might scoff at dollar store, plastic clothes hangers. Because they have embraced a quality clothes mindset, they may value a better quality hanger to hang their higher quality clothing.

The Answer Isn’t Always Simple

The answer to this financial debate isn’t always as simple as you might think. It really boils down to our values and interests. If you’re a coffee fanatic, then you’re willinging to pay more for your cup of java. If you do a lot of work via technology, then you will value a higher quality, higher cost product. If you need to dress for success in your career, then you need to buy higher quality clothing.

And this is really okay, assuming we are still living out wise, Biblical financial principles. If you’re going into debt to drink high-quality coffee, to buy an new iMac each year, or to purchase expensive clothing, then we have a much bigger problem to deal with.

I typically take a quality assessment on purchases to see if it’s really worth spending the money on what I need or want. If the higher-end, quality product is worth it long-term, then I’ll save my money and pay cash for the better product.

Questions: How about you? Are you locked into the frugality mindset? Are you willing to pay a higher price on a better quality product? What’s your approach to the great debate of quality vs frugality?

3 Powerful Outcomes To Being Thankful, Even In Difficult Circumstances

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Photo by Timothy Valentine

Tragedy Led To The First Thanksgiving

The Thanksgiving holiday here in the United States was birthed out of tragic circumstances.

After a brutal winter in 1620-1621, half of the Mayflower Pilgrims at Plymouth Colony died. But, with the help of a few English-speaking native Americans, Governor William Bradford and the surviving colonists were successful in establishing a colony and raising their first crop of corn. As a result, Governor Bradford organized the very first “Thanksgiving” feast, a festival that lasted three days! They gave thanks to God for helping them survive a very difficult first year in the New World.

As Christians, an attitude of thanksgiving should be a spiritual outcome of making it through difficult circumstances. Unfortunately though, I fear many times we get angry and bitter with God for His allowing us to go through the difficult circumstances in the first place.

Here are some outcomes of a thankful attitude, no matter the circumstances.

3 Powerful Outcomes To Being Thankful

1. An attitude of gratitude allows us to be content with what we have in this moment in time.

“Give thanks in everything, for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus.” (1 Thessalonians 5:18)

“Be thankful for what you have; you’ll end up having more. If you concentrate on what you don’t have, you will never, ever have enough.” – Oprah Winfrey

God’s will for you is to be thankful in all things. It doesn’t matter whether you’re having a great day, week, or even year. It doesn’t matter if you don’t think you have everything that you could ever want or need. Acknowledge that He is in charge, that He has a plan for your life, and that you need to be thankful, no matter the circumstances. Focus on what God has given you, not on what you don’t have in your life in this moment in time. If you’re still above ground and sucking wind, then you have at least one thing to praise God for – life!

2. An attitude of gratitude keeps us humble and dependent on God.

“Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God.” (Philippians 4:6)

“Pride slays thanksgiving, but a humble mind is the soil out of which thanks naturally grow. A proud man is seldom a grateful man, for he never thinks he gets as much as he deserves.” – Henry Ward Beecher

God desires your complete devotion and dependence on Him. This is the core essence of a growing relationship with the Lord. This is why He possibly allows difficult circumstances to enter our lives – to keep us humbly dependent on Him. A true attitude of thanksgiving is a natural result of being in total surrender to Him and His will.

3. An attitude of gratitude compels us to share with others.

“Be joyful in hope, patient in affliction, faithful in prayer. Share with the Lord’s people who are in need. Practice hospitality.” (Romans 12:12-13)

“If you are really thankful, what do you do? You share.” – W. Clement Stone

Thankful people share. They share their lives, their abilities, and their finances. They give to others because they want to, not necessarily because they have to. This is all a natural outgrowth of a truly thankful heart.

Questions: Do you have an attitude of thanksgiving, no matter the circumstances in your life? Do you find yourself displaying these three outcomes of contentment, humility, and sharing? If not, why not?